Travel Safety & Security

FMTY-Specific Client Vetting

Standard screening plus additional verification for international travel:

• Full verification status required (ID + phone + behavioral verification)
• References from other companions (FMTY experience preferred)
• Video call verification before finalizing booking
• Social media cross-reference (LinkedIn, professional profiles)
• Detailed itinerary discussion (activities, expectations, boundaries)
• 50% deposit secured minimum 4 weeks in advance
• Emergency contact information exchanged

Red Flags for FMTY:

• Unwillingness to verify identity via video call
• Vague about destination or accommodation details
• Pressure to book without advance planning
• Evasive about professional background or reason for visit
• Unwilling to provide emergency contact information
• Refuses escrow payment for deposit

Pre-Travel Research Checklist

Legal & Regulatory:

• Local laws regarding companion services (full legal vs. criminalizing)
• Immigration requirements and visa status
• Passport validity (minimum 6 months required)
• Cover story for immigration if needed
• Local emergency services numbers (police, medical)

Safety & Security:

• Government travel advisories (US State Dept, UK Foreign Office, etc.)
• Current events and political stability
• Crime rates and safe/unsafe neighborhoods
• Hotel location safety assessment (Google Street View, reviews)
• Local transportation safety (reliable taxi services, Uber availability)

Health & Medical:

• Required vaccinations
• Health insurance coverage (international travel insurance required)
• Nearest hospitals and medical facilities
• Prescription medication regulations
• Water/food safety considerations

Cultural & Practical:

• Local customs and cultural norms
• Dress code expectations
• Language barriers (key phrases, translation apps)
• Currency and payment methods
• Time zone and jet lag considerations

Trusted Contact System

Before Departure:

• Designate trusted contact (friend, colleague, safety buddy)
• Share complete itinerary (flight details, hotel, client first name)
• Provide physical description and photo of client if available
• Share destination emergency numbers
• Establish check-in schedule (daily minimum)
• Create code words ("everything fine" vs. "need help immediately")
• Give power of attorney or emergency decision-making authority if needed

Check-In Schedule:

• Landing: "Arrived safely at [destination]"
• Hotel Check-In: "At hotel [name], Room [number]"
• Daily: Check-in every 24 hours minimum (same time each day)
• Before Departure: "Heading to airport, flight [details]"
• After Landing: "Home safe"

Missed Check-In Protocol:

• If no check-in within 2 hours of scheduled time, trusted contact attempts to reach you
• If no response within 4 hours, trusted contact calls hotel front desk
• If no confirmation after 6 hours, trusted contact calls local police for welfare check
• MyBookXXX emergency line notified immediately (+31 85 130 5500)

FMTY Safety Kit

Must-Have Items:

• Fully charged phone + portable charger + international charger adapter
• Copies of passport, visa, travel insurance (paper + digital)
• Local emergency numbers programmed (police, embassy, MyBookXXX hotline)
• Local currency cash (€200-500 equivalent for emergencies)
• Credit/debit cards (multiple cards in case one fails)
• Personal safety alarm or whistle
• Door wedge or portable door lock (additional hotel room security)
• STI protection supplies (condoms, dental dams, lube)
• Basic first aid kit (pain relievers, band-aids, anti-diarrheal)
• Prescription medications (original packaging with documentation)

Digital Safety:

• VPN service for secure internet connection
• Offline maps downloaded (Google Maps, Maps.me)
• Translation app with offline language packs
• Emergency contact list (digital + written backup)
• Encrypted messaging app (Signal, WhatsApp) for sensitive communications

Hotel Security Protocol

Upon Check-In:

• Inspect room thoroughly (check closets, bathroom, balcony)
• Locate emergency exits and fire extinguishers
• Test door locks and deadbolt
• Check window/balcony security
• Identify safe (use for passport, return flight ticket)
• Note hotel phone number and address (for taxi returns)

Room Security Measures:

• Use all available locks (deadbolt, chain, door wedge)
• Place "Do Not Disturb" sign outside when with client
• Keep phone charged and accessible at all times
• Maintain clear path to exit
• Know hotel security/concierge contact information

Never:

• Share room number publicly or on social media
• Leave door propped open
• Allow anyone in room without verifying identity
• Leave valuables visible (laptop, jewelry)

Medical Preparedness

Before Travel:

• Purchase comprehensive travel insurance (medical evacuation coverage recommended)
• Research nearest hospitals/clinics to hotel
• Bring sufficient prescription medications (+extra for delays)
• STI testing before trip (for your own peace of mind and documentation)
• Know how to access emergency contraception in destination country
• PrEP medication if at risk for HIV exposure (taken before travel)

Sexual Health Protection:

• Bring own condoms (trusted brand, proper storage)
• Never rely on client to provide protection
• Refuse any activity without barrier protection
• Know location of STI testing clinics (if staying extended period)
• Post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) available if condom breaks (72-hour window)

If Medical Issue Arises:

• Contact hotel concierge for doctor/hospital recommendation
• Use travel insurance emergency assistance line
• Keep all medical receipts for insurance reimbursement
• Notify client if illness prevents fulfilling booking (refund discussion)

Money & Payment Safety

• Multiple payment methods: 2+ credit cards, cash, mobile payment apps
• Notify bank of travel to avoid card blocks
• Separate storage: Don't keep all cash/cards in one place
• Hotel safe usage: Store passport, extra cash, backup card
• Emergency funds: Maintain €500-1000 accessible for immediate emergencies
• Cryptocurrency backup: Bitcoin or USDC wallet as last resort
• Western Union access: Trusted contact can wire emergency funds

Legal Compliance While Traveling

Immigration/Border Control:

• Never mention companion services or sex work
• Cover story: "Business consultant," "Personal assistant," or "Tourism"
• Have return flight confirmation readily available
• Hotel reservation confirmation shows you're a legitimate tourist
• Business cards describing neutral profession (consultant, coach, etc.)

Local Laws:

• Research local sex work laws before accepting booking
• Nordic model countries (Sweden, Norway, France): Client criminalized, you are not, but avoid explicit arrangements
• Fully legal countries (Netherlands, Germany, Switzerland): Lower legal risk
• Ambiguous legal status: Maintain discretion, avoid explicit discussions in public

Cultural Sensitivity:

• Dress appropriately for local customs (especially conservative countries)
• Avoid public displays of affection where culturally inappropriate
• Research local etiquette (tipping, greetings, dining customs)
• Respectful behavior maintains low profile and safety

Reducing Risk Proactively

• Verify client identity thoroughly before finalizing travel
• Use MyBookXXX escrow for all payments (proof of legitimate transaction)
• Travel to familiar destinations first (build FMTY experience gradually)
• Shorter trips initially (2-3 days before week-long bookings)
• Regulated markets safer (Netherlands, Germany safer than France, Sweden)
• Major cities preferable (better infrastructure, easier to get help)
• Trust your instincts (if client seems risky, decline booking)
• Emergency fund maintained (ability to buy last-minute flight home)